Guerrilla Networking: Yay or Neigh?
I spent the weekend of March 21 in San Francisco. It was a fun trip. More than a week later, though, I'm still chewing over something that happened while I was there. It was a missed opportunity, and I'm mourning it.
Here's what happened: On Friday, I was riding an F-line streetcar from Market Street to Fisherman's Wharf. The streetcar was crowded and I was packed into the back of it with a gaggle of tourists and a few visibly perturbed locals, like sardines sandwiched into a can. I noticed a gentleman standing next to me; his messenger bag was brushing up against my right arm. Attached to it was a name badge or sorts. I read it and smiled, as he was an editor at a major San Francisco-based media company, which publishes several high profile Web sites.
Being a writer, editors are my best friends. These are the folks who make my business tick. It seemed serendipitous, therefore, that I was rubbing elbows — literally — with this guy in a San Francisco streetcar. This was an opportunity, for sure. The question was, how could I seize it?
I had with me some business cards, as well as some promotional pens on which is my business contact information. I thought about slipping a pen secretly into his bag or his pocket, but that felt creepy. I thought about actually introducing myself, but that felt awkward, given the circumstances. I thought about e-mailing him an introduction on Monday, but that felt fanatical. So, I did nothing while I watched him exit the streetcar, taking with him a world of potential new business.
I'm reminded of the classic "elevator pitch" that so many entrepreneurs are trained to give. Does it really work? I can't help but think that if I had tried to schmooze this man on a streetcar, among tourists with fanny packs and digital cameras, he would have been more likely to slap me with a restraining order — or at least a very odd look — than a writing contract. After all, it's one thing to approach someone at a networking event, but it's something else entirely to tap a stranger on the shoulder in order to make a sale.
Was I right to let the man be? Or did I miss out on a major opportunity? If you've got stories of "guerrilla networking," I'd like to hear them. Did your efforts sour or succeed? Maybe there's still time for me to reach out and connect ...










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